90 Day Fiance fans beg Kalani to leave Asuelu after another week of bad behavior on Happily Ever After

Asuelu upsets viewers with his treatment of Kalani
Fans urge Kalani to leave Asuelu. Pic credit: TLC

If you’ve been watching 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After? then you’ll know exactly why fans are calling out Asuelu Pulaa for his behavior.

His treatment of wife Kalani has been absolutely deplorable.

Now, after another week of bad behavior from the Samoan native, viewers have had enough!

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So far we haven’t seen Asuelu in a good light. As the couple struggle with trying to manage their two young kids, all the work seems to be on Kalani with very little help from her husband.

In past episodes, Kalani shed light on the fact the Asuelu spent more time with his friends than with the family.

And while we saw him trying to make up for that –by planning a date night with his wife– Asuelu has become more disliked with each episode.

Asuelu disrespects women during angry rant

A recent car ride while on a trip out of town exposed a side of Asuelu that has 90 Day Fiance fans on overdrive.

With two sick kids in tow and Asuelu riding shotgun as her mom drove,  Kalani struggled to manage the two screaming kids in the backseat.

He was already upset because Kalani canceled their trip to his home country, due to an outbreak of measles in Samoa.

When she asked him for help during the car ride, Asuelu told her that her job as a mother is easy.

He also said that all women in America have it easy because they use machines to do the work for them.

When the Happily Ever After alum brought up the fact that she has been staying up with the kids at night during their sickness, he told her that it’s a woman’s job.

As the conversation continued, he threw a few F-bombs at his wife and even called her a lying b***h.

Twitter urges Kalani to leave Asuelu

Viewers were outraged at the 24-year-old’s misogynistic and disrespectful behavior towards his wife and mother-in-law.

Many angry fans took to Twitter and implored Kalani to leave her Samoan beau.

Twitter user is upset at Asuelu
Pic credit:@dancebonnie/Twitter


Twitter users reacts to Asuelu
Pic credit:@olalaits_french/Twitter.

One Twitter user said she doesn’t know how Kalani can even stand to look at her husband and said she would send Asuelu right back to Samoa.

Twitter user says she would send Asuelu back to Samoa
Pic credit:@GingerhairGrnEy/Twitter

Do you think Asuelu will apologize for this deplorable behavior?

90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After? airs on Sundays at 8/7c on TLC.

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Julie Wolf
Julie Wolf
3 years ago

This girl needs to send him packing. He’s a huge child and when you have an awesome father like Low, a guy like her husband, he doesn’t measure up. Kalani made a huge mistake and now she’s drowning. She really needs send him home. He doesn’t fit in here and he’s never going to be the father she needs him to be. She will have plenty of help from her family and more support when she finally dumps him

meghan mayor
meghan mayor
3 years ago

I doubt he’s ever apologized for anything. Look, I don’t think he’s an evil person, and I think he loves his little family, but IMO, the cultural bridge is waaayy too wide. Her father warned her not to get involved with a Samoan man, but she did anyway, and her family is supportive (his apparently just wants him to send them money). The sad thing is that when he gets back to Samoa, he won’t be homesick anymore, but his kids will likely grow up without a father. I think the same thing might happen with Karine and Paul–I just don’t see her staying in the States with no friends and his family very much NOT supporting them. If I were her, I’d want to go home and have my family’s help in raising my child.

3 years ago

I the family isnt very understanding when it comes the culture differences and they should be helping him in with this instead of pushing him everytime. Her own father is from same village and should understand the struggles that he may be having . Iam not what he could have done to help with kids when he was in the front seat last nite .they may want to consider buying a larger car of the re going to have her mom drive they

3 years ago

OMG I just saw the episode here in Washington DC tonight – he acts more immature and childish and sulkish and pretty damn pathetic when he doesnt get his own way. He needs to grow some balls and act like a grown adult and the father of 2 kids. I accept culture differences (I’m Irish living in the USA) but he’s an obnoxious git. If he pulled that crap with an Irish woman she would slap his ass silly and tell him to grow up. I’m surprised her mother didnt put him out of the car – such a pathetic excuse of a man. His children deserve better. She’s a tough girl for sure but in the interest of his kids, get over his hump, get off his fat arse, get a proper job and stop acting like a spoilt obnoxious child. He’s embarrasing to the nature of his own people now as well and shaming the entire country – little git!!!

3 years ago

She should be past apologies! He isn’t a man, he’s a little boy! She needs to do whats right for her kids and find someone else, who will love, care and Respect ALL 3 of them! She deserves much more than what he is offering!

Janet Crosby
Janet Crosby
3 years ago

Send him back to Samoa!!!!