Angela Simmons has been going through quite a bit in her life over the past couple of years, and as we saw on the latest episode of Growing Up Hip Hop, she’s been consulting with life coach Chenoa Maxwell to help her get through it.
Why does Angela Simmons need a life coach?
As Angela shared with her life coach Chenoa Maxwell on the latest episode of Growing Up Hip Hop, Angela’s son has been asking about his daddy lately, and she has been struggling to talk to him about how his father has passed away, and he’s no longer here.
The scene was tearful as Angela explained her sadness and the difficulty in explaining to her son that his father is no longer around. Chenoa pointed out that Angela is still grieving, and she agreed.
But Angela sees her life coach for more than just help in getting over the death of her ex-fiance. They also talked about Romeo Miller and their struggles lately to even get along.
Angela opened up about the tension between them, explaining how Romeo is critical of the men she dates, the pictures she posts, and seemingly everything else in her life.
Chenoa Maxwell gave Angela a listening ear and some great insight into how hard it is sometimes to be a woman, and specifically, a woman of color, as she navigates all of the stressors in her life.
Who is Chenoa Maxwell?
Angela Simmons’ life coach, Chenoa Maxwell, is a 50-year-old actress and photographer who has managed to make another career for herself in helping others to live a more prosperous and happy life.
On Instagram, Maxwell bills herself as an emotional and soul intelligence expert with more than 46,500 followers.
Chenoa Maxwell’s life coaching company is called Live Limitlessly, where she offers individual sessions as well as retreats for those who want her help in improving their lives.
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I used to think that criticizing myself meant that I was bringing #awareness to my faults and imperfections so that I could seek out ways to “be better.” Not necessarily better than anyone else, just better than who I saw myself at that moment. I also used to think and actually took pride in the fact that I never judged anyone else, only myself. Eventually, I saw that I was wrong on both of those counts. 🤦🏽♀️ Not only was I viewing myself through a highly critical lens, but I was also unconsciously doing the same with others too. As it turns out, self-criticism and judgment are inextricably intertwined. You see… what you judge harshly in yourself you also end up judging in others too. In other words, on a subconscious level, you end up projecting your own ideas of what is faulty or intolerable in yourself onto other people so that you don’t have to suffer the pain of seeing it in yourself. As Oscar Wilde once said, “Criticism is the only reliable form of autobiography." It tells you more about the #psychology of yourself than the people you are criticizing. What I also realized is that my self-criticism was not only keeping me from the #healthy #relationships I desired, it was chipping away at my #selfesteem too. Judgment, after all, is separation. So at some point, I had to get honest with myself and ask, how can I do better? What I discovered was that if I used my judgment of others as a cue to check in with myself and my thought process— it informed me of the things inside myself that I wanted to develop more powerfully. What a revelation! This really clarified in a new way, how your outer world is indeed a reflection of your inner world. So, the next time you catch yourself having a defining thought about someone, take a step back and pay close attention to the things you are saying. If you are able to sharpen your observations, you’ll probably realize that this intolerance is more directed at yourself than the people you're projecting your most critical thoughts on. If you’re ready to move into that next level of #self and #love through bringing more #mindfulness to your judgments of others, respond with, "I’m Ready!” below. 👇🏽
Obtaining Maxwell’s help won’t come cheap, though. Individual transformational sessions run $500, and that’s just the beginning. A one-month transformation session is $2,000, and an intensive transformation from Chenoa Maxwell will set you back $6,000.
Chenoa Maxwell spent more than 20 years learning and developing the tools she needs to help herself and others to reach their full potential. A native New Yorker, Maxwell talks of her struggles to cope with childhood abuse and abandonment, leaving to be on her own at just 17 years old.
Now, she takes the tools and growth of her own to help others incorporate her principles into their lives.
Growing Up Hip Hop airs Thursdays at 9/8c on WEtv.
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