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Jennifer Lopez's relationship blame
Sep 12, 2007, 7:00 GMT
Jennifer Lopez on the red carpet at the Fourth Annual Fashion Rocks Concert at Radio City Music Hall in New York City USA, 06 September 2007. EPA/PETER FOLEY
Jennifer Lopez admits she was partly to blame for the breakdown of all her relationships.
The singer-and-actress - who has been married to male model Ojani Noa and dancer Cris Judd, and had high-profile relationships with P. Diddy and Ben Affleck - believes it is important to realise that nobody is blameless when a romance fails.
Jennifer - who is now married to Latin singer Marc Anthony - said: "I learnt to take a look at myself and not to point the finger, like, 'Well, this person did this to me.' But say, 'What did I do?' The hardest thing in life is to really look at yourself in the mirror and ask, 'What's not so good about me, what can I fix?' It's so much easier to play the victim, I think."
The 38-year-old star realised she had to change in order to make her marriage to Marc work.
She added: "Your responsibility for what you do in a relationship is the most important thing and not always going, 'He could do this better and he could do that better.' Well, what can I do better, you know? I could have taken the time to really ask what was wrong."
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Overrated and unattractive. her songs were written by middle school kids.
another dopey snatch
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PooperSep 12th, 2007 - 17:22:20
Oh great - I give big butt and her hubby another six months.
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