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The bane of many marriages: Snoring, and what can be done about it

By April MacIntyre Jan 18, 2009, 18:53 GMT

Courtesy of momlogic.com

Courtesy of momlogic.com

Short of smothering your partner as he/she sleeps, the issue of snoring can derail a happy union, and cause a sleep-deprived spouse to consider evil thoughts to rectify the problem. 

So what can be done?

One weary mom and a sleep and snoring expert weighed in with momlogic.com and provided some insight.

The website hosted a guest blogger "Samantha", a self-described "victim of snoring" who wondered what legal and humane ways were available to get her husband to stop.

She writes: "Sometimes, the sound is so intense and jarring, I kick my husband (hard!) to get him to stop. Most nights, I have no choice but to seek refuge in the spare bedroom or on the couch. In the morning, both of us are pissed: I have slept poorly on the couch (and feel awful for kicking my husband), and my husband is angry. Not only did I kick him, I'm not sleeping with him!"

According to Dr. Michael Breus, Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and Board Certified in Clinical Sleep Disorders, to minimize snoring. Dr. Breus, (who diagnosed Rosie O'Donnell with sleep apnea on "The View") told momlogic that there is a tremendous amount of emotional turmoil that comes from sleeping next to a snoring bed partner.

"There is significant data that now suggests that if you sleep next to someone that snores, you lose between one and three hours of sleep yourself." Dr. Breus suggests that you educate the person who is snoring.

"A lot of times the person who is snoring thinks it's their partner's problem -- they need to deal with it. But in fact, it's the snorer's problem to fix."

Dr. Breus says snoring can actually lead to ill health affects.

New studies have even shown that high blood pressure is a result of snoring.

Suggestions to minimize or eliminate snoring:

1) WEIGHT: When men gain weight, they actually deposit fat in their throats. And when people lose weight, even a small amount, the decibel level (in the throat) decreases.

If you (or your partner) can lose between 5 and 8 lbs., you can expect to see a significant reduction in snoring.

2) SMOKING: It inflames the nasal tissue -- just like congestion. QUIT.

3) ALLERGIES: Someone with an allergy to smoke, mold, pets , allergens in a pillow (such as down) or certain laundry detergents, can be prone to snoring.

4) STRUCTURAL DAMAGE: People with structural damage have what's known as a deviated septum -- it narrows the airway, making air go faster.

The faster the air moves, the more it will vibrate tissue in the back of your throat -- that vibration causes a cadence, which creates a snore.

There are particular surgeries that can help decrease the narrowing of the nasal cavities; one is called a septoplasty. There are also other surgeries now that can take whatever tissue is vibrating and firm it up.

5) ALCOHOL: Alcohol can make snoring worse -- because it is a muscle relaxant, and as the muscles relax, the passage gets narrower. However, there's really no data that says heavy or spicy foods makes snoring worse.

Other than surgery, what can a snorer do to minimize snoring?

Many people use a nasal decongestant spray before going to sleep, which can help. Also a product like Netty Pot, which is a saline flush, can reduce congestion and snoring.

There is also the CPAP machine (available by prescription only) which is used for someone with sleep apnea. Warning: It will put the kibosh on your sex life, and make your partner look like he/she is deep water diving.

Sleep apnea is a very serious potentially fatal condition and usually the snorer can't determine if they have it on their own. Not only do you snore, but you close your throat and stop breathing. If you think you or your partner has this, you should seek medical help.

And what about Breathe Right strips?

Breathe Right strips only work for select group of people. They are really designed for people with narrow nasal passages. There are pros and cons with the strips as well .... everything from falling off in middle of the night or allergies to the adhesive. They also really need to be put in the right spot to work (towards the tip of the nose and not at the top at the bridge).

Is there something I can do to cope with the snoring?

You can roll the offender over to their side. It opens up their airway and gravity is no longer a force.

If you get noise plugs, you can get noise level rated NLR 32 or below, which would allow you to still hear a smoke alarm or a baby crying. You could also use noise cancellation headphones. Or you can use a sound machine.

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DropYourAllergiesJan 19th, 2009 - 16:22:53

Save Your Marrage
Lose your Allergies
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While Your ALLERGY disease Only Gets WORSE !


ALLERGY is Directly / InDirectly Implicated in the following Disease Conditions:

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RESPIRATORY: Allergic ASTHMA / Bronchial ASTHMA / Chronic Cough / Chronic Cold / Allergic Rhinitis / Sinusitis / Sinus Infections / Conjunctivitis / Tonsillitis / Wheezing / Snoring / Sleep Apnea

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PSYCHOLOGICAL: Depression / Chronic Fatigue / Autism / ADHD / HeadAches / Immune system Weakness

Musculo-SKELETAL: Rheumatoid Arthritis / Myalgia / Sciatica / Spondylosis / Cramps


ALLERGIES Weaken Immune System & Steal Capacity to Fight What Really Matters !

IT goes without saying that it is Very Important to Keep Your Immune System at PEAK Performance.

Many of us Try our Best to Eat Properly, take Supplements, Exercise Regularly, Get the right amount of Sleep and perhaps practice Stress Relief Techniques such as Yoga, Prayer or Meditation.

Unfortunately, Today’s Fast Paced, High Stress World often Chips Away at our best Efforts often leaving our Immune System in Less than a Peak Performance State of Affair.

One often overlooked aspect of Immune System Health relates to our ALLERGIES and how they compromise the overall Health of our ( and our Children’s ) Immune System.

Try as we might to Control their nagging and draining Symptoms by taking multiple Medications, those pesky ALLERGIES just keep right on coming and coming… They just Do NOT Go Away !

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